Monday, 18 July 2011
For men, the lure of dating very attractive women
For men, the lure of dating very attractive women is obvious as they are arm candy, boost self-esteem, increase social status among men, multiply a guy's sexual desirability, and hot women are just damn good to look at. While all of this is well and good, very attractive women have their dark side and can be shallow, self-centered and self-absorbed, not to mention that many of them are selfish, think that their vaginas are gold-plated, and are manipulators, among many other negative qualities.
Dating Very Attractive Women 01
Let's be honest: Good-looking women in the 21st century have the world -- literally -- by the balls. That's because for very attractive women men are panting puppets, sex is available on demand and money flows from male wallets in a never-ending stream of avarice.
Without lifting a finger, very attractive women enjoy lives that most people can only fantasize about.
Without lifting a finger, very attractive women enjoy lives that most people can only fantasize about.
Tuesday, 12 July 2011
similar in the way you smile
The indirect approach should be used if a woman is with a friend, in a group or alone: “Are you girls best friends, because you seem really similar in the way you smile?” or “Do you think it’s right for a guy to break up with a girl via text message?”
“You’re a beautiful woman,
The direct approach only works with women who are alone. It is risky, as it requires the woman to find you immediately attractive. This approach would be a sincere compliment, coupled with a backhanded-compliment: “You’re a beautiful woman, but what’s really rare is beauty, positive outlook and a great personality. You’ve got out two out of three so far.” Say it with a smile and be half-joking.
Monday, 11 July 2011
The Negative Effects Of The Internet On Social Skills
There are two groups involved in the debate about internet use. The first group are those who claim thatsocial media and the internet has enabled people to cultivate richer social lives than before. The second group are those who claimthat the increased time people spent bouncing around on the web have become to an increasing extent more excluded from others, and are lacking in true human connections.
Science is now beginning to have its say.
A study done at the Stockholm School of Economics looked into the association between peoples’ internet use and their results on different measures of social wellbeing, such as their work life balance and emotional health.
The lead investigator of the study, Dr. Elizabeth Engleberg discovered that people with high internet use were markedly more lonesome and had a porrer work life balance than those with low internet use.
This outcome strongly supports the viewpoint that the social media cannot take the place of true face to face interaction. It seems that no matter how much people interact through social media, they don’t find the true human interactions that they desire.
Besides, it looks that too much internet use also stops people from acquiring the skills they needed to interact with others. Dr. Engelberg discovered that people who spent a lot of time online scored lower on scales of emotional intelligence and social skills.
It is a shame that the people who most need to learn how to interact with others are the ones spending the most time on their computers alone.
Intuitively, that makes sense: if people find it difficult to interact with others, they are less enclined to participate in social interaction. Instead, they spend their time in solitary activities, such as surfing the web.
But in doing so, these people have no chance to improve their communication skills. They’ve entered a downhill slide, where they spend more and more time online and become more and more lonesome, but never feel comfortable communicating with others.
To get out of this downward spiral, people need to turn their computers off, go out, and create true human relationships with others
Science is now beginning to have its say.
A study done at the Stockholm School of Economics looked into the association between peoples’ internet use and their results on different measures of social wellbeing, such as their work life balance and emotional health.
The lead investigator of the study, Dr. Elizabeth Engleberg discovered that people with high internet use were markedly more lonesome and had a porrer work life balance than those with low internet use.
This outcome strongly supports the viewpoint that the social media cannot take the place of true face to face interaction. It seems that no matter how much people interact through social media, they don’t find the true human interactions that they desire.
Besides, it looks that too much internet use also stops people from acquiring the skills they needed to interact with others. Dr. Engelberg discovered that people who spent a lot of time online scored lower on scales of emotional intelligence and social skills.
It is a shame that the people who most need to learn how to interact with others are the ones spending the most time on their computers alone.
Intuitively, that makes sense: if people find it difficult to interact with others, they are less enclined to participate in social interaction. Instead, they spend their time in solitary activities, such as surfing the web.
But in doing so, these people have no chance to improve their communication skills. They’ve entered a downhill slide, where they spend more and more time online and become more and more lonesome, but never feel comfortable communicating with others.
To get out of this downward spiral, people need to turn their computers off, go out, and create true human relationships with others
You can use eye contact to get her attention
Eye Contact
You can use eye contact to get her attention and show interest in her. You don’t make eye contact with people unless you really notice them right? So when you make eye contact with her she will know that you have really noticed her.
Make sure to hold the eye contact for a few seconds and end it with a smile. If you don’t smile at the end of the eye contact she may wonder if she has something on her shirt or if she has pissed you off.
If you hold the eye contact any longer then a few seconds than you will cross over into the ‘creepy flirting guy’ territory. You will looks as though you are undressing her, and she will most likely cover up her chest with her arms and get out of there.
You can use eye contact to get her attention and show interest in her. You don’t make eye contact with people unless you really notice them right? So when you make eye contact with her she will know that you have really noticed her.
Make sure to hold the eye contact for a few seconds and end it with a smile. If you don’t smile at the end of the eye contact she may wonder if she has something on her shirt or if she has pissed you off.
If you hold the eye contact any longer then a few seconds than you will cross over into the ‘creepy flirting guy’ territory. You will looks as though you are undressing her, and she will most likely cover up her chest with her arms and get out of there.
Flirt With Women Without Looking Creepy
If you know where she will be at a certain time then it is easy to show up at that place at the same time. This means that you have time to prepare!
Smell is a powerful thing. It can remind us of something wonderful and happy in our past and instantly attract us to someone with the right smell.
If she has seen you before but you have not been wearing cologne then she will notice the change in smell when you appear in a scent that makes you irresistible. She will most likely know that you went to the trouble of smelling good for her as well – and she will like it! It's sweet that you went to the trouble to smell good for her.
As a precaution make sure that you really do smell good in your cologne. Ask a friend or family member to be brutally honest with you. If you don’t smell good it can have the exact opposite effect you are going for.
Smell is a powerful thing. It can remind us of something wonderful and happy in our past and instantly attract us to someone with the right smell.
If she has seen you before but you have not been wearing cologne then she will notice the change in smell when you appear in a scent that makes you irresistible. She will most likely know that you went to the trouble of smelling good for her as well – and she will like it! It's sweet that you went to the trouble to smell good for her.
As a precaution make sure that you really do smell good in your cologne. Ask a friend or family member to be brutally honest with you. If you don’t smell good it can have the exact opposite effect you are going for.
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