I meet many, many women who value theirrelationship with what each of us have a different name for - God, The Universe, The Divine, Spirit, Universal Love…and truly value being with a man who SHARES their values and spiritual interest and commitment. And it’s SO EASY to mistake the friendship that can grow between two people who worship in the same way, who care about the same things, who are devoted to their families or community, for a passionate, emotional bond.
And yet, all that will get you is - at best - a deep friendship, and at worst - a man who takes advantage of or just simply enjoys your “niceness.”
He’ll tell everyone what a great woman you are, but he won’t be dreaming about you night after night or longing to hold you in his arms.
Don’t believe me?
Ask yourself if you’ve ever been truly turned on and “lost” to a man just because he was extra nice to you, or did sweet things for his mother, or volunteered his time for a charity.
If you’re honest with yourself, you’ll admit that a man’s altruistic and “giving” qualities weren’t the real reason a man got into your heart and stayed there.
The real reasons were much more complex, and hard to put into words.
Therefore, you being kind-hearted and thoughtful won’t be the reason why a man will fall madly in love with you, either.
Well, what else is there, you might ask, other than this trio - this well-known triangle of Mind, Body and Spirit?
And yet, all that will get you is - at best - a deep friendship, and at worst - a man who takes advantage of or just simply enjoys your “niceness.”
He’ll tell everyone what a great woman you are, but he won’t be dreaming about you night after night or longing to hold you in his arms.
Don’t believe me?
Ask yourself if you’ve ever been truly turned on and “lost” to a man just because he was extra nice to you, or did sweet things for his mother, or volunteered his time for a charity.
If you’re honest with yourself, you’ll admit that a man’s altruistic and “giving” qualities weren’t the real reason a man got into your heart and stayed there.
The real reasons were much more complex, and hard to put into words.
Therefore, you being kind-hearted and thoughtful won’t be the reason why a man will fall madly in love with you, either.
Well, what else is there, you might ask, other than this trio - this well-known triangle of Mind, Body and Spirit?
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