More and more people are turning to finding someone online and for good reason. It cuts out a lot of the time wasters in person to person dating. No longer do you have to go out to the bar, hang around for hours until you spot someone you are interested in, approach them, get rejected, and start all over again! Now you can just get rejected from the comfort of your couch!
But seriously, it is a great way to meet someone at your convenience and from the comfort of your home without having to go out and spend your valuable time looking at places you may rather not be at.
If you want to find a girlfriend online then you will want to follow the following rules. They will help you find someone compatible and make the most of your time online and offline.
Figure Out Who You Really Are
A lot of the time we play charades when we are hooking up with someone. Stop that. Don’t pretend to be someone who you are not in order to get a girl. Pretending to be someone else only ends up with hurt feelings, fights, and breakups.
Instead figure out what you really want in life and what your dreams, passions, and desires are. Once you figure it all out then go out with the intention of finding a girl who accepts you for who you are.
Figure Out What Type of Girlfriend You Want
Do you want a girlfriend who has a lot in common with you? Then you better find one who does! Online you can figure out girls without having to talk to them by checking out their profile. They should have their interests, likes, and other important information laid out for you to spy on. So spy!
Only contact girls that seem to match the type of girl you are looking for and avoid the rest. It’s okay to want a girl that’s different from you but make sure you have some common beliefs, interests, or goals. You want to have some common ground to enjoy each other on.
For instance if you want to spend time with your girlfriend then you better make sure that you have some common interests. If she enjoys partying every night and you enjoy staying home every night then the relationship is not going to work. In other words, give your relationship a fighting chance before it even starts.
Find a Dating Site Right For You
You don’t have to sign up with the most popular dating site. There are so many dating sites out their tailored to individual needs.
There are dating sites devoted to certain religions, ethnicities, beliefs, likes, and more. There is even a site devoted to people who are ‘geeky’ – meaning they can’t find someone on regular dating sites who enjoys more intellectual or unconventional behaviour. There is a dating site out there especially for you. Find it.
Make an Honest Profile
Now that you have been honest with yourself and know who you are looking for don’t make up a story about yourself or stretch the truth in your profile. Just tell it like it is.
A girl is going to have to like you for who you are and that’s all there is to it. Otherwise you may be dealing with a surprised girlfriend after the real you pops out. When this happens it will most likely lead to a breakup.
Respond to Potential Girlfriends
If you find a girl you like then contact her online. You are going to have to make some sort of move to learn more about her. Make sure you respond as soon as possible because she may have a lot of other potential guys hanging around.
Ask Her Out
Found someone totally compatible? Been talking online and want to get to know her more? Ask her out for a face to face date.
Rejection can happen, but you will never know is she's the one unless you try. You have to go on a date to see if she was being honest and whether there is sexual chemistry there that could lead to a relationship.
You’ve skipped the approach, paying for the drinks, awkward conversation, asking her for her phone number, and all that other offline junk. You’ve gotten to know each other a little and your date will be much smoother than if you had just met at a random bar for a few minutes last week. in other words, you will know that your money is being well spent if you are paying for dinner.
Make Another Date
If the date goes well then make another one! Remember she is still on a dating site and has the potential to meet someone else if you don't actively make your move. So go for it!
Don't Keep Looking After You've Met Someone Special
If you start to date the woman you meet then stop going online. If she catches you online then she may wonder if you are still looking for someone besides her and that could end the relationship very fast! Just give her a shot before you look around for more potential girlfriends.
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