Affairs With Married Women

How To Spot A One-Night Stand

Here’s the scenario: You're sitting in a bar, relaxing over a drink after a long day’s work next to an incredibly hot, sexy woman, and you’re having a fun and playful conversation. You’re really hitting it off with her, and soon she is really coming on to you, very sexually, like no woman has ever before. You almost can't believe that it's happening. 

She then whispers in your ear that she'd love to spend the night with you, just as a one-shot deal. You think to yourself, "All right, one-night stand. That sounds like it could be great fun." 

As you leave with your new one-night-stand-to-be, just before getting into your car, she looks at you and says, "I’ve got to let you know something: I'm married. The marriage is not going well, and I'm planning on leaving him soon, but in the meantime, I just really want to have some hot, great sex with you."

So you turn the ignition. You put the car into drive. You pause and think. Now what do you do? Do you head back to your place for a night of passionate fun, or do you turn to her and say you’ll drive her home because you don't have affairs with married women? 

I’ll be honest. On a purely physical level, most men are going to enjoy their affairs with married women. You are basically serving as her outlet, so a married woman is usually amazing when she chooses you as her victim. You're bringing out her inner tigress. You're unlocking a woman full of sexual desire who is not getting her needs met at home, so of course the one night of sex is going to be unbelievably great. There are no strings attached to it, either, so it’s just fantastic sex with seemingly no consequences. 

When I was in my 20s, I slept with a few married women. How did it feel afterward? It felt like a conquest. I felt great, like I had tasted the forbidden fruit. But as I got a bit older, as I started to understand the value of relationships, I started thinking to myself, "What if this woman was my wife. What if she was my girlfriend? What if she was the woman who was the mother of my kids?" How would I feel if my girlfriend or my wife was getting into a stranger's car to go off and have hot, wild sex with him? 

The truth is that there is a moral issue in affairs with married women that you will have to deal with eventually. I truly believe that when it comes down to it, our morals are our own and only you can decide what is right for you. I’m not here to tell you what’s right and what’s wrong. But I know from personal experience that it can be a difficult decision to make when you're in that situation. The scenario is a common one, whether the married woman comes onto you in a local bar, your co-worker’s wife asks to sneak off with you at the office party, you’re letting loose on vacation with friends, or maybe you’re at a convention on a business trip. It doesn't matter how the occasion presents itself. Chances are that at some point you will run into a married woman who's looking to play. Cheating is rampant.