Get yourself motivated to find a compatible dating partner who you truly enjoy, a person with whom you can build a productive and fulfilling relationship. Finding a good match will take some time, effort, and perseverance. This will require a strong source of motivation.
Here's how: First, visualize yourself in a magnificent relationship. Picture every glorious detail. Then visualize yourself in a horrible relationship and picture every nasty detail. Create these visualizations by recalling your own relationship experiences and/or those of other couples you've observed.
Motivation is created when we imagine the pleasure we will feel by having something we desire-- like a great relationship. Motivation is intensified when we imagine the pain we will feel if we were to end up with something we hate instead-- like a bad relationship. Use these opposing mental strategies to create a relentless motivation to find the person who's right for you!
