You Can Do Immediately After Your First Date

There are going to be first dates where you don't hit it off with a woman.
Either there was no chemistry or your personalities don't mesh, it'll be obvious the two of you won't going on a second date.
Once you realize it won't work, end the date and cut your losses!
Since the date was brief, you really haven't wasted that much time or money. By ending the date quickly, you'll be able to avoid hurt feelings and will move on to the next woman.
So when you realize the date has gone badly, just end and tell her you have stuff to do.
But please be honest and don't promise to call her you're never planning on speaking to her again.
Many guys think a first date is only successful if you end up having sex. In my opinion, this is wrong!
There are a lot of times when you want to have a lot of fun on a first date, but don't want it to lead to sex. This is especially true if you're looking for a long-term relationship.
During your first date, you'll probably get an idea if there is chemistry between the two of you. At this point, you can try two things:
First you can suggest a 'venue change' (I'll cover this in the next section) and go on an immediate second date.
Or you can end the date if one of you has already made plans after the first date.
Now if one of you has to leave after the first date, I suggest you immediately set up a follow up date.
Here's how to do it...
As you're ending the date, take something from the conversation and playfully turn it into concrete plans for landing that second date.
For instance if she expressed interest in a particular type of music mention that you're checking out a band which is similar to her taste. Then ask if she wants to 'tag along' with you.
Or even now that you've broken the ice, you could go out to dinner or promise her a home cooked meal. The point is one the first date has ending, immediately make plans for the second plan.