Don't get so catch up in trying to find the perfect partner that you don't enjoy the journey. Have fun! Learn! Grow!
When you find yourself out on a date with someone who isn't right for you, just shift your attention to what you can learn from them and enjoy the conversation. If it's really an uncomfortable situation, end the date as quickly as possible and go enjoy the rest of your day. Don't waste any time doing a postmortem, just say to yourself, "Next!"
When you're alone use the time to learn about yourself and how to enjoy your single life whether you're dating someone or not. This means having the ability to go out to dinner alone on a Saturday night and truly enjoy it. Test yourself. Try it!
When a person is at peace being alone then their decision to be in relationship is a matter of free choice and not an emotional necessity. When there is freedom to decide when and if a person wants to be in a relationship, a better choice in a partner can be mad
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